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Choose love over hatred

Letter to the Editor

Published: Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Updated: Monday, January 28, 2013 21:01

It is simpler to vilify those who disagree with us rather than to understand them.  Mr. Bradley, your viewpoint “Gazing into the Abyss” (Jan. 25), demonstrates a concerning lack of empathy for women who choose abortion. Jesus calls us to love one another without condition, while you gather stones to hurl at those you should regard as sisters.

You claim no “empathetic endeavor” makes the choice to have an abortion make sense. I assert that you lack either imagination or effort, because it is not difficult to place yourself in these women’s shoes. Picture the confusion and fright that a woman experiences, knowing her future is now cast into uncertainty. Imagine survivors of rape, facing the scary reality of bringing a child into the world.  Understand the heartbreak of choosing between your life and your child’s. Our society’s not exactly supportive of those who get pregnant too young or without resources. These are not evil people; they are not even bad people. They are frightened.

You suggest that Hitler and company were not “slaughtering the innocent” and were motivated by their ideals. I contend that slaughtering the innocent is exactly what they were doing. They were driven by ambition and hatred, not “ideals.” That you empathize with men motivated by malevolence rather than women motivated by fear is worrisome. Those men did unspeakably evil acts; comparing their actions to abortion not only offends their victims but also alienates women who choose abortion.

Abortion is a tragedy. It breaks my heart to consider the children never born. I commend those who choose life over fear. We are called to love the innocent as well as the guilty. After all, none of us are innocent. We have all sinned. These sins do not make someone any less deserving of empathy, dignity and love. It is not our place to judge others. Certainly we agree that abortion is an evil. However, you believe the women are evil while I maintain that they are only human.

Your condemnation adds nothing. Instead, it sends a message to women who have had abortions: “You are worse than Hitler. You are irredeemably sinful.” Void of love and understanding, your message is a clanging cymbal, drowning out Christ’s declaration that all are welcome.

Let us choose life over death, understanding over condemnation and love over hatred. Let us be kind to one another.


Ashley Currey

sophomore

Ryan Hall

Jan. 28
 

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6 comments

Anonymous
Thu Jan 31 2013 13:44
Ashley, Thank you for your refreshing perspective!
Pete
Wed Jan 30 2013 22:44
Ashley,

Thanks for your reply. I still think that there are issues with your interpretation of Bradley's argument, but I can't really blame you, though, since he didn't clearly distinguish between what we might call "legitimate" or "true" justifications, and any possible justification which one might give for an action.

So, when he says "There is simply no justification for this...etc.," he is referring to the fact that no true justification can be offered in support of abortion, but it should also be understood that the same is the case with regard to the other forms of genocide. Hence, when he later talks about the "justifications" given by the dictators perpetrating genocide (which he also refers to as "their philosophies"), his point is that no one thinks those so-called "justifications" are legitimate. At that point he asks, "What does that say about us and ours?" which implies that we (America / women who choose abortion, as you put it) do give justifications for abortion (which sound eerily similar to those given by the dictators), even though we find those of the dictators to be completely abhorrent.

I think his argument can be stated somewhat more concisely like this: These men killed millions of innocent people, all the while lying to themselves that they were justified in doing it. We now understand their justifications to be totally illegitimate and false-- there is no true justification for genocide. But the same general form of justification that they gave is also offered by those who support legalized abortion, namely, "the existence of such people will hinder my ability to attain the end I seek." So if we recognize the evil of the dictators' actions and the illegitimacy of their justifications, why do we refuse to recognize the evil of abortion and the illegitimacy of the justifications that are given for it.

I hope that makes it a bit clearer. I realize that the fact that I had to flesh out the argument in his article points to it's having a problem, but the problem isn't that it's offensive or lacks empathy for the women who are put in a position in which they feel they must have an abortion. Rather, his statement of it was just unclear.

Ashley C.
Wed Jan 30 2013 21:47
Pete,

Mr. Bradley clearly says that he cannot come up with any justifications for why people support abortion, either for themselves or for others:

"But if I had to think of an explanation for why Americans get up in arms, devote billions of dollars, hours of service and volunteer time, and dedicate their lives to preventing such atrocious episodes as those described above from continuing or happening again, while simultaneously citing a "right" that awards legal license to murder others (or their own) children for convenience?s sake ... well, I can't finish that sentence after all.

Followed by, a few sentences later, stating that he can at least understand why Hitler and company did what they did:

"These men had justifications for their choices, though: they weren't slaughtering the innocent so much as defending ideals, defending rights, defending themselves."

He goes on to ask why, if these men seem to epitomize evil for us AND they had "justifications" for what they were doing, then how much worse must we (as in, America/people who choose abortion) be for failing to protect the unborn without ANY possible justification.

He may not have spelled it out in so many words, but anyone reading his letter to the editor could easily tell you that he thinks Hitler had justification for his actions and women who have abortions don't. That seems like a worrisome line of thought, if you ask me.

Pete
Wed Jan 30 2013 20:00
Mr. Bradley certainly could have been more clear in his wording, but you're being completely disingenuous if you think he doesn't believe that innocents were slaughtered in the various genocides he mentions. Why else would he draw the parallel with abortion in America?

His point was with regard to the reasons for acting which were offered by those evil men. Think of it this way: the rhetoric with which those dictators justified their slaughtering of innocent people wasn't of the form "Hurray, let's kill some innocent people because it's enjoyable!" Rather, the rhetoric used to justify these mass-murders was aimed at dehumanizing the innocent victim, so that those actually performing the act of killing would be able to justify it to themselves and be able to go through with it. This sort of rhetoric is routinely used by supporters of legalized abortion whenever they argue that an embryo or a fetus isn't a human being, even though any embryology textbook will tell you that there is a distinct human organism in the womb from the moment of conception.

With that tactic having been ineffective and contradicted by science itself, proponents of legalized abortion moved on to say that the organism in the womb isn't a "person," and therefore doesn't have the rights which human "persons" have. Their only problem with this tact is that their criteria for what constitutes a "person" is completely arbitrary, while the pronouncement of science that there is a distinct human organism in the womb is anything but.

Michael wasn't condemning women by any means: he literally did not even mention the women who actually choose to have abortions. In fact, the implication of his argument is that the women who choose to have abortions have been duped/ lied to/ deceived with regard to the evil of this action, a position which is very clearly pitiable. Instead, he was bemoaning the fact that nobody seems to ever draw this entirely legitimate parallel between the two sorts of case. For, if they did, then they would not sit idly by as the genocide continues, but would act to end it.

Anonymous
Tue Jan 29 2013 22:29
Actually, they weren't apathetic. The average person who worked for Hitler knew what they were doing. They knew the anti-Jewish rhetoric all around them, and they promoted that hatred.
Anonymous
Mon Jan 28 2013 23:28
Actually, most people who worked for Hitler didn't work out of hatred. They claimed they were "just following orders." They didn't hate, they were apathetic.




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