The 21st
As the clock struck midnight on Tuesday morning, my friends and I tossed confetti in the air and hoisted my friend Bear on a chair to celebrate his "Bear-mitzvah." We'd been looking forward to his birthday for quite a while now because his is the last 21st birthday that our group has to celebrate, which might be our biggest event until graduation. While all birthdays are special, the 21st birthday is the Holy Grail of birthdays because it gives you almost any legal freedom you can imagine. In the 14 months or so since my first friend turned 21, I've noticed that all 21st birthdays can fall into certain categories. While they all may be celebrated the same way, the actual time when they're celebrated can mean a lot of different things.






